From Top To Bottom Through Doms On Subs
- hvn
- Nov 13, 2019
- 1 min read
Updated: Nov 14, 2019
There seem to be this persisting confusion among both blossoming gays and some Executive gays alike, when asked their preferred sex position and role.
Many of them seem at sixes and sevens!
They define those in shambolic, often contradictory ways.

Picking all of those labels ”just to be sure” or worse, ”because I’m into everything lol”, just shows you have no clue about what those terms mean.
You might as well pick none, because selecting them all does not say anything about your actual preferences.
It just lists all possibilities.
Sexual Position
• If you enjoy to fuck — you are a TOP.
• If you enjoy to get fucked — you are a BOTTOM.
• If you enjoy both — you are VERSATILE.
Sexual Role
• If you enjoy to be in charge, to dominate — you are a DOM.
• If you enjoy to be obedient and used — you are a SUB.
• If you enjoy both — you are a SWITCH.
Those are not about frequency. Those are about what you enjoy the most.
If you enjoy both to fuck and to get fucked occasionally —with the right guy as they say— you are a top. Just because you can do both, does not make you versatile. If that were the case, we would all be versatile; and as you know, reality has another take on it.
In turn, each sex position can pair with any sexual role.
You can be a bottom/dom, for example (aka power bottom); or a top/switch, etc.
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